Saturday, January 31, 2009

things i love: vitamin shampoo

Looking to see who the contest winner is? Watch here to see!



I love hair. I even went to beauty school, though I dropped out months before graduation. Minor details. See, unfortunately I have a strong sense of smell, and the smell of hair and heads got to me.

Yet, I still love hair and I love the statement hair makes.

Your hair says a lot about you, and more importantly, the smell of your hair says even more. A dirty smelly head? Not such good things. A yummy smelling head? Good things.

Are you following me here?

Consider me, the beauty school scholar, an expert, and just trust me.

This is why I think you should try Vitamin Shampoo. It's so yummy and you will want to eat it. But, don't. It's shampoo.

Why will you love it? Here's why:



And if the ad doesn't sell you, maybe this will. It's sells for around $5! And VitaminShampoo™ products are free of lauryl or laureth sulfates and are paraben free. Did you know that sulfate stuff can cause you to lose hair?!? Um ya, not good. Not good at all.

Trust me. I liked it. I'm the expert, remember?

Where to buy?

Amazon, Walmart, Target, Walgreens, CVS, Duane Read, Bed Bath & Beyond....and many more.

You'll thank me. Because people will like you better when your hair smells good. And because of that you just might save one girl from dropping out of beauty school.

You can thank me and Mom Fuse later for sharing this important announcement.

Now go, and wash your hair. Make new friends.


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Friday, January 30, 2009

contest winner!

Okay, so here's my scatterbrained video picking the winner. As you can see, I get easily sidetracked!


Oh, and I never finished explaining my necklace. On one side I have the kids first initial and on the back side is their birthdays. So cute. I love.

And I love all of you. Thanks again for hanging out with me...and please, please don't leave me.

I need you. All of you.

(***Okay, Chris and Don, you didn't leave an email address, so click on contact me, so we can work this thing out. Hurry Hurry! You don't want to lose out. You have 72 hours from this post, otherwise a new video with a new winner Sunday at 5pm**)


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

american idol audition spoof

In order to understand the rest of this blog, you must first go and watch this:


Okay, are you back? Did you watch? Seriously, don't read on, unless you watched.

Now, as I watched this the other night, I was struck by the similarities between George and my husband.


George is a physics major, Jimmy graduated from UCLA with a Physics degree. 

George is a great dancer, and as we all know, so is Jimmy George is also a musician, and my husband is an amazing guitar and bass player.  George has a beard. Jimmy has a tuft of hair in his chin crease. 
Seriously, they could be brothers. It's weird.

So, I pulled out the camera tonight and this is what prevailed. Beware. You might laugh so hard you fart.

I did. ;-)

(That was the first take as seen another time.)

This is Take 2:


I've said it before, and I'll say it again...

"Back off Ladies! He's all mine."


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

tuesday's with malia

So, to be fair, there is a level that goes deeper than shopping between me and my sister Malia.

Being that she's only three years older than me, she was the sister I "grew up" with the most. And even though for awhile we fought like cats and dogs...I still always wished I could be like her. Once she grew out of the angry stage that is. (wink wink, Malia.)

When we were teenagers and she had her room decorated all country and matchy matchy, I had envy. And when she worked hard in the mornings to puff her perm and perfectly tease her bangs, I adoringly watched on.

And now that we're older I have even more to learn from her. She's an amazing mom, a hard worker, and a sweet and thoughtful friend and sister. In her tribute I talk about just why she is so special. Read here for more.

Malia's always been ahead of her years, and she really is a wealth of knowledge and wisdom. For example, here are just a few of the many nuggets that have stuck with me in the two days since she's been gone.

***I need to take down the door hanger on the front door that says, "Shhh, Taylor is sleeping." Because a stranger could walk up to the door and say, "Hey Taylor, open up." And my sweet trusting son would open up, and then forever be gone. (Although, I begged to differ by saying they would bring him back just minutes later.)***

My son and I have since had quite a few conversations about not talking to strangers, opening the door without mommy's permission, or ever leaving mommy's sight because bad people could take you away. Basically I instilled the same fear of God in my son that my sister put in me.***

***When applying night cream, don't rub it into your entire hand. Instead just apply with your fingertips so that you don't waste the product on your palms. (This may be the reason my palms have less fine lines and wrinkles than my face.)***

***The best sheets are Charter Club brand found at Macy's. Expensive, but worth the cost. And they don't pill.***

***Tomatoes last longer when they're not in the fridge.***

***I even learned a new way to load Chloe's bottles in the dishwasher so that it's easier to put away when they're clean.***

But then there is some wisdom you just don't need to learn from a sister, because life has a way of having already taught it to you.

The biggest one being:

***Don't go to a Yoga class a month or even three after having a baby. *Some of you will get this, some of you may not. But trust me, it's not a good idea.****

P.S. The title of this post...did you get it? It's a play on "Tuesdays with Morrie." Wise man, wise sister. Get it now? ;-)



© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

mommy dearest



Ever have those days where you feel you slightly resemble Joan Crawford, and there is really not much difference between you and her when she yells "NO WIRE HANGERS....EVER!!!!!"

But instead, you hear yourself yelling, "NO MORE WHINING....EVER!" or "NO, I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOUR CARS ANYMORE!!!!" or "I JUST WANT TO POOP ALONE!!!! (okay, maybe that last one is just me....)

Ya, it's been one of those, um, months for me. Just call me Mommy Dearest.

Honestly, I have to agree with a friend of mine who said, "Motherhood is a calling."

Somedays I have it, most days I don't.

I envy those of you who are able to stay at home, keep the house clean, have your laundry done, cook dinner from scratch, and somehow you don't even know what an antidepressant is.

Who are you people? How do you live such lives?

I don't mean to complain. I don't. I love that I get to stay home and be with my kids. I do.

No really. I love my life, I love my life....

But.....

Sometimes the grass is greener on the other side, and today I want to be on the green. Just today I want to talk to an adult who simply says what they have to say and they say it once. And to be around the kind of people who know what I mean when I say, "Jason is such a great dad. I really hope he gets the right girl this time," ahhh, I mean, that would be the life!

And just once, just once when I flush the toilet, it would be so nice not to hear, "Was it a big one or a small one, Mom?"

I know it's weird, but I don't want to talk to a car that doesn't talk back to me. I don't want to hear the same phrase 40 times in five minutes. And I'd like to be spoken to in a tone other than high pitched whining.

Oh crap. Wait, what's this oh so familiar "mom feeling" coming over me right now?

Guilt. (Like we don't feel that enough...)

Okay, okay....

To be honest, it's me. It's not him. I'm the one with issues and stuff.

He was sweet today. I mean, he stayed by my side from morning till night and yet still felt that he needed to tell me, "I miss you, Mom," every ten minutes.

Bad, bad mom for complaining.

Just call me Mommy Dearest.


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Monday, January 26, 2009

anthropology love

Looking to enter the giveaway? If so, click here, otherwise, read on. It's about to get good. I mean, really good. You will feel really happy after reading this tribute. I promise...

So, my sister Malia was here over the weekend, and in true sister form we went shopping.

Is there any better way to bond?

The only hitch was that we shop a little differently. Malia likes nice things. Expensive things. Quality over quantity. Or actually, Quality AND Quantity. She's in a two income home though, and to be honest, if I was too, I'd be the same way. But, I'm not. I'm on a budget. We'd like to buy a house one day.

Though we had some differences in places we like to shop, there was one place that spoke both of our names.

Anthropology

Even typing it makes me happy. I'm actually smiling right now.

Right when I walked in, I felt at home. I sat down on the cozy green couch
in the front and just looked around soaking in all the beauty.

First there were these:

and then this:

and woah mama, I needed this....

Or I would have been happy to take either of these:

Of course I walked out bag-less....but every item I touched and fawned over will forever be in my heart. I will never forget you cute patterned purse with the blue fabric bow. Cozy arm chair, you made my bootie so happy while I rested on you. And, all tableware, you could so totally complete me.

And so, because I spent all last week being sentimental, and this week Anthropology has consumed my thoughts, what better than to tribute this ah-mazing store.

I love it, I do.

And thank you Malia....I would have never found such true love had it not been for your expensive and exquisite taste.







© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Saturday, January 24, 2009

my first giveaway

Are you ready for this? Are you???

Okay so here's the deal, I am hosting a giveaway for some really awesome products that everyone will want to have. First let me tempt you with the "swag" and then I'll lay down the rules.

See this photo/card holder?


It's worth 20 bucks.


And this backpack?


Sells for $45.

Now look at this SnuglyMat:


It's going rate is $55!!! (Baby not included!)

The winner of this contest will win, free of charge, one photo/card holder and the choice of either a customized Backpack or SnuglyMat. You get to pick which you want and choose any fabric you so desire to make it just the way you want!

Ready for the rules?

1. First of all you have to visit each website. Curly Wire & Little Brown Crane. Check out their stuff and come back here telling me which item you loved the best, one pick from each store. (Curly Wire is a small shop but worth checking out!!!)

2. Also, you have to be a follower of this blog. I'm hosting this giveway as a "Thank You" gift for being a reader. How can I thank you if you don't show your lovely face??? ;-) Plus, it makes me feel special to know people are reading. Thank you gift for you, ego boost for me. We both win.

3. Lastly, if you post a blog sharing about this giveaway, and you come back to let me know, I will grant you THREE, count them, THREE additional entries.

I will pick a winner randomly out of a hat via video on Friday!!!

Have fun and good luck!!!


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Thursday, January 22, 2009

the shallow side & a giveaway?

It's been an emotional writing (reading???) week. And all throughout, I've had so many non-emotional things to share.

Reality TV (is there any other?):

Like, The Bachelor.
I like the Interior Designer. She is so cute and totally non-drama.
The girl who looks like Sandra Bullock? Um, no thanks. How does she not know that the words "Control Freak" are never good to share when trying to woo a man?
And crazy "I know your birthday" girl, she is funny in a freaky way.

My husband decided the show wasn't good for me when after it ended I turned to him and said, "If you were on this show and had 20 girls besides me to choose from, do you think you would still pick me?"

And then The City.
I have an on again/off again relationship with Jay.
Adam, guilty. So totally guilty. Men like that suck, and my heart breaks for girls who wind up with them.

Real Housewives of the O.C.?
I think I have an ugly disgusted look on my face the entire hour I am watching the show. But, I just can't seem to pull away. They are horribly mean and stuck up, and I feel bad for Leanne. And a little bit even for Gretchen. Jeana is just sad, sad, sad. Her life is a mess and she needs to get a backbone. As for Vickie and Tamra, they are simply evil and awful. Ick, ick. Thinking of them just made me throw up a little in mouth.

Reviews:
I'm trying out some new skin care/hair care products. Once I decide I like them, I'll be sure to give my reviews.

Giveway:
Okay, now I wasn't sure I would ever do this, because I wanted to keep my blog simply for writing, but I wanted to find a way to say thanks to all of my readers. So, if you're a follower stay tuned. And if you're not, you should click the follow this blog icon, because next week I'll do my first (and maybe only) giveaway especially for those followers of mine.

Dog Stuff:
I also have to share that I had a couple bonding moments with Bradley. My needy dog. I think I semi like him now. And he's definitely not up for the giveaway anymore. The first awesome thing he did was protect my baby from someone he thought was trying to take her. Now, that person was me, and I was just trying to get her out of the carseat...but he didn't know that at first. He caught me out of the corner of his eye and he immediately growled and came running. He stopped when he realized it was me. I almost cried. It was a moment.

Then this morning Taylor called me out to the backyard to see something cool. That something cool had flies swarming it and a long icky tail. I'm assuming at one point it was a rat. And I am almost sure our Bradley killed it. I am so proud.

He is the king of the world, and he just earned his keep in our house. Anyway, I figure his neediness will be worth something when my kids are grown and gone and I have empty nest syndrome. Because, lucky me, choose to adopt a breed that outlives his owners.

Okay, so my sister Malia is coming this weekend so I'm taking a writing break. But, I will be back on Sunday with the details of the giveaway. Remember it's a thank you gift for being a follower, so make sure you are. ;-)


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

legacy of love: my conclusion



This is the song I want played at my memorial. This is the Legacy I want to leave behind. This is the story I want told when I get to heaven one day.

Between my dad's and my grandpa's story, I will never be the same. I will never look at life quite as flippantly as I once did. Sometimes though, such as recently, I get wrapped up in myself and I forget. This is exactly why I chose to revisit and share this particular story of my dad.

In my marriage, as a parent and a friend, and even as a writer....all I desire is to make a difference. If even to only one person.

Then my Legacy will be complete.



© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

legacy of love: the final chapter



As the service began, the pastor shared the story of my dad’s life and then opened the floor for anyone to recall his or her own memories. My heart smiled, and the tears fell, as I watched a line form out the door. For more than an hour, each person came forward telling a tale filled with absolute respect, honor, and love for a man I had always been proud to call dad. Each story told of how he listened, how he cared, how he helped, how he went out of his way, and how their lives were changed because of him. It felt like a movie as the time passed, and the line only continued to grow.

Suddenly it wasn’t about his mistakes anymore. It was about his love. The same love that had kept me going, kept me believing that true love existed, had also changed so many people’s lives as well. My dad had done what he was sent here to do: to give others hope, and to make them feel loved. And now, his heart and soul were at rest in a place where it was now his turn to receive the unconditional love he had been waiting for all his life. My dad had always wanted to be loved and accepted, and on this day, his hopes came true.

I know my dad had to have been looking out for me, and must have known I had continued to hope mostly because of his acceptance and love in my life. He had to know I needed someone to love me in the same way, so completely and unconditionally. I know this because not long after he passed away, I met Jimmy, someone who had the exact tender heart as my dad. Every loving quality my dad possessed, Jimmy possessed as well. I fell in love, and this time when I gave my heart and soul, I received his in return. I had finally found someone who would love me unconditionally, just the way my dad did.

One year later, on the exact day of my dad’s death, Jimmy and I were married. I chose that particular day, because I knew that not only was my husband God’s gift, but he was my dad’s gift to me as well. We lit a candle in memory of him, and held the reception in a place that was close to his heart. I know he was celebrating with us on that amazing day.

It took a lot of patience, forgiveness, and understanding to continually love my dad the way I tried to over the years. But, I am so thankful for the relationship we shared. No matter how many miles were between us, our hearts and souls always remained close. Without the example of him and his life, I would have never understood what it means to truly love unconditionally. This is not to say that I stop hoping or praying for better for the lives of those I love, because I always do, and I always will. It is to say, however, that I have learned to love others exactly where they are at any moment in their life.

If only I knew then what I know now, I would have told the sobbing boy on the phone that night, exactly what he needed to hear. I would have shared with him all the hearts and souls that would be changed because of his love and acceptance. I would have told him it was especially “daddy’s little girl,” whose heart and soul would never again be the same. What an incredible legacy to leave behind.

A Legacy of Love.

Conclusion: Thursday


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Monday, January 19, 2009

legacy of love: part 3

If you're just reading, below are the links to catch up. And I promise...the story does get better.



Suddenly, a stream of bad luck seemed to strike my dads life. His dad fell ill, and he had to watch his own father die slowly before his very eyes. In the midst of dealing with this, he began to experience extreme complications due to his childhood polio. The doctors put him on painkillers, and asked him to take a leave of absence from work so they could run more tests and studies on his disease. While tending to his pain, both emotionally and physically, things only continued to get worse. Carol had disappeared on a three-day binge, and during this binge, stole his car and wrecked it. This resulted in having to bail her out of jail yet once again. All this happened not long after he had just paid her way through rehab.

One night, my dad called me in tears. He had reached his breaking point. Sobbing like a child, he began to pour out his heart in a way I had never heard him do before. For two hours, I listened to what sounded like a little boy crying his heart out, needing so desperately for someone to love him. He wept and apologized over and over again for all his mistakes as a dad, and shared his brokenness about feeling like nobody would ever love him the way he desired to be loved. He shared how he felt so alone, and how he had always just wanted to be loved.

That night, I began to understand not only my dad, but myself as well. We had been giving the love to others that we so desperately needed for ourselves. More than I wanted that love for me, I realized I needed it for him.

About a year after this phone call, I received another call that would forever change my life. This time it was my mom telling me that my dad’s body had been found on the side of the road. He had fallen and died of his first and only heart attack. I was devastated and numb. I screamed and sobbed for hours upon hours. My heart hurt more than it ever had. Once again my daddy had left me, and this time he wasn’t coming back. I had lost the only man who had ever truly loved me.

In the days that followed my dad’s death, I began to find out more about how sad his life had really been. With each detail, my heart would crumble into more pieces than I thought possible. Though he promised his marriage to Carol was over, the truth was, he had never even filed for divorce.

When he collapsed, he had just left his latest "replacement" girlfriends house after finding out that she too was cheating on him. His home was in shambles, and there were boxes and boxes of unopened mail and bills. His debts were enormous, and creditors were after him. The worst part was that he had never written a will or changed his beneficiary, and since he was still legally married to Carol, every possession and every dollar of life insurance and retirement was left to his estranged drug addicted wife. The responsibility to pay for his funeral and his debt though, conveniently fell into mine and my sisters laps instead. Besides his bills and debt, my sisters and I were left with only memories of our dad.

For once in my life, I allowed myself to be really angry with him. How could he have left us with such a mess? And why had he lied to me, someone who loved and accepted him no matter what? I felt so betrayed.

My hurt and anger held firm until the day of my dad’s funeral. But, as I walked into the chapel, my heart softened at what I saw. The room was absolutely filled. Every seat was taken, and there were people taken to standing in the back. As I looked around, I noticed that a wide variety of people had come to pay respects. The homeless, the mentally challenged, the physically disabled, fellow workers young and old, ex-wives, ex-"projects," and old family friends had found a way (or should I say a bus?) to come and say goodbye. I realized, as I observed the crowd, how truly soft hearted my dad had been. He had invited into his life every person who needed love and had instead been rejected by society. He never judged, never critiqued. He only loved and accepted people just as they were. It was amazing to see how his love had touched so many people.


Wednesday: Final Chapter
Thursday: Conclusion


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

legacy of love: part 2


As I grew up, my dad and I remained close. He wasn’t around often, but when I needed him, he was there.

At 14, I was raped, my virginity stolen by a guy I hardly knew. I felt so dirty, and I was sure that nobody would believe me. But, a week later when I finally told my dad, he knew the words true, and he did everything he could to convict the ones involved. He never made me feel as if it were my fault. He took me to live with him and his second wife, and protected me from the threats of my rapist and his friends. My dad was once again my prince, and I felt so adored by his love and affection. It seemed no matter what mistakes I continued to make in my life, he still loved and accepted me. I, in turn, gave the same back to my dad. No matter what he did, or what choices he made, I would forgive him and love him no less. Unfortunately, we so easily gave that same kind of mercy and grace to others who didn’t seem to appreciate such an amazing gift.

Over the years I continued to give love, or what I thought was love, to many. This resulted in only having my heart broken again and again. I would sit nights on end in tears, wondering why there wasn’t another man who would love me unconditionally, the way my dad did. My dad, as well, was experiencing much of the same heartache himself. His second wife eventually cheated on him, leaving him to experience a little of what he had put his own family through. Unable to be alone, he quickly and often took in many women who didn’t deserve a piece of his tender and giving heart. He would give, and the women would take. I hated to see the pain it would cause him. It was clear to me that he was choosing the wrong ones to love, and yet I couldn’t see through my own fog of similar decisions. I was amazed though, that through all his heartache, he was still able to love so unconditionally. Not just me, or the women he dated, but the way he loved the homeless and the destitute that rode the city bus he had been driving for over 20 years. I always heard about the different people he helped, and saw how often he went out of his way to make them smile. It was sweet, and it only made me love him more.

My dad’s habits continued. There had been many women in his life, and all had been a temporary fix to loneliness, so I never expected his relationship with Carol to be any different. This woman was trash if I’d ever seen it. He had met her on his bus, and had only been dating her a few weeks. She was quite a bit younger and a whole lot wilder than he. Among the many problems this woman had, bipolar disorder combined with a heavy drug addiction were at the top of the list. My dad had a need to “fix” people. He wanted to help them, and I figured she was just his latest project.

But, behind all four of his daughter’s backs, he married this “project” for better or for worse. It was the last straw for my three sisters. This was the last mistake they could watch him make, and the last heartbreak they could feel from him. I, on the other hand, couldn’t stay angry. Maybe it was the fact that I knew that none of his relationships lasted. Or maybe I just realized that I couldn’t change him, and I had to learn to love him despite how I thought he “should” be. (living two states away helped a bit too.) I also think that a little part of me recognized a similar pattern in my own dating life. I was no better at choosing then he was.

Things may have been bad in his life then, but we had no idea how much worse things were about to get.

Part 3: Tuesday


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Saturday, January 17, 2009

legacy of love: part 1

There are little girls who truly and unconditionally love their dads. Little girls who follow their dads around, faithfully by their side, even if it’s only to the dump or to garage sales. And there are little girls who believe their fathers can do no wrong. Most people call them, “Daddy’s girls.”

I know, because I was one of those girls. I adored my dad, and he adored me. He was my guy, and I knew I would always love him to the end.

Knowing this, you can only imagine the pain I felt the night I stood at the top of the stairs as I listened to my oldest sister screaming at my dad. I quietly stood there, and watched as my dad packed his things, saying nothing. My heart broke as I saw my mom standing there in tears, softly crying out my dad’s name. I sat down on the stairs, and began to put the pieces together. Though I was only nine, I was smart enough to realize that my dad was leaving me. As he finished packing his things, he glanced up the stairs and noticed me sitting there. I can only imagine how it broke his heart to see his little girl in tears, to see the look of abandonment on my young face. His voice cracked as he softly told me, “Daddy’s going away for a little while.”

Then he gave me a hug and a kiss, turned, and walked out the door.

That night, I came to find out that my dad had been cheating on my mom with another woman in the town where he was working. He would often stay the week there at the office, then come home to us on the weekends. My dad had always hated being alone, and I guess the time he was away was too much for him to handle. Due to his infidelity, my parents divorced after 23 years of marriage.

I went to see my dad every other weekend, and we worked to rebuild the connection that was once so strong. I constantly tried to find the good in him, and wanted so badly to defend his terrible choices. I didn’t know then, why I felt so devoted to a man who had caused my first heartbreak.

That was a lesson to be learned later in my life.

Monday: Part 2


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

legacy of love: introduction

I've been doing a lot of thinking.

And believe it or not, it has nothing to do with fashion, shopping or decorating my home. For some reason, out of the blue, I've really been thinking about my purpose.

My purpose as a mom, a wife, a friend, a writer.

I've had a lot of people close to me pass away over the years, and with each time, each funeral I attend, I find myself wondering what will be said about me when it's my time. What kind of a legacy will I have left behind?

But how can I leave a legacy if I'm not living my life with a purpose?

My days seem to just go by, one right after another, and at times I feel like I'm not doing much with what God has given me. Am I making a difference in my kids life? In my friends? With my writing? With strangers that I meet? Am I living life with a purpose in mind, or am I just living?

(I know, I go deep, huh? It happens, don't act so surprised. I am an aspiring writer after all!)

Anyway, all this pondering has brought up some stuff. There is so much that keeps replaying in my head and weighing on my heart. In order to make sense of it all, I think I'm going to spend the next week writing about it.

It's time to get vulnerable. I want to get to a deeper place in my life (and my writing), and in order to do so, I guess sometimes I have to get uncomfortable.

What I'm going to share is going to be humbling, and at times even embarrassing. But, it's been on my heart all week to do this, and I know it will only benefit me (and hopefully one of you) in the end.

I'm calling it the Legacy of Love.

Part 1: tomorrow.


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

nothing but shoes and yogurt

It's been a long week. My sweet sweet Taylor is not so sweet this week. Or last week...or actually, well, let's just say it's been a long two years. And he's only three.

I mean, what the heck is up with kids? Or my kid as I'm sure you don't have this problem. But, seriously, where is the fear and trepidation that we had for our parents? What must I do?

Actually, I know what to do. I did it well in all my years as a nanny. I guess it's just a bit different when it's your own. I get lazy and eventually I realize I'm slacking in the discipline. I find I'm giving too many chances or bending the rules just because it's easier. But it always brings me back to here. To this beautiful place of wondering if a 5 pm bedtime is too early.

You can always tell what's going on with me by the books I have next to the couch. Here's what I pulled out today:


It's time to bring on the Little Momma Smack Down.

I was feeling a bit close to tears tonight, but then I walked into my room and saw these:


I felt a smile spread across my lips. It's superficial I know, but sometimes a cute pair of shoes it all it takes. Well, that and Pineapple Upside Down Cake Yoplait yogurt. The combination was blissful.

Okay, so as you've seen I have some re-reading to do. (this is what, the third time for both books?)

I'll be back with a well disciplined child.

Or else, I'll just be back.


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Monday, January 12, 2009

can i use that?


Today's Tuesday Tribute is to Taylor. For making me laugh just when I'm about to strangle the kid... (kidding! I wouldn't really strangle him. Come on now.) I'd just pretend.

First, there are the things I say that aren't always so cute when coming out of a preschoolers mouth.


I ask: "Taylor, can you come here please?"

He says: "In a minute, I'm a little busy right now."

Or like when he fell the other day and he yelled: "Ding it!" (I think he meant "Dang it.")

And then there's the whole Bradley thing. Where he got "Annoying Dog," or "Bradley, get away," or even "Arrrrgh, Bradley!!!!" is beyond me.

But then he says things that are super cute like today when he spilled his cup of blueberries. He came running in and said, "Mom come here right now!" I followed him out to the playroom to see the mess. Then he turned to me and said, "I do not like this problem that I have at all. Not at all!"

Or tonight when I took him out for some special mommy & Taylor time. We were at Ross (again, yes. Hey, special time is about the bonding more than where we are....) I couldn't find the particular shoes I was looking for and must have been complaining out loud, because he grabbed my arm and looked up at me and said, "Mom, isn't it such a bummer? Man, it's such a bummer that sometimes they don't have what you want." Seriously. Word for word.

Then on the way home from Jamba Juice (Ross for me, Jamba for him) we were listening to the song, "Who Let the Dogs Out." As soon as it came on the radio he yelled, "Mom, this is totally Dad's favorite song. Totally totally his favorite."

But then there's this one phrase that he's picked up, from where I don't know, that I honestly hear several times a day.


I say: "Taylor, it's time to pick up your toys."

He says: "But mom, I'm feeling a little sick right now. I think I might actually throw up. And I could throw up all over my toys. So, I probably shouldn't do that right now."

Or, the other day it was:


I said: "Can you feed Chloe for a minute while I finish something up?"

He said: "I might throw up. And I might throw up all over her."

I wonder if I'd get away with using that?

"Not tonight honey, I might throw up alllll over you and the bed. So, I probably shouldn't do that right now."

"Cook dinner? Oh no, I'm sick and I might throw up in the food. So, no cooking for me."

Oh, wait. It's not about me today. Old habits...

Anyway, he's a handful, but he makes me laugh.




© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Sunday, January 11, 2009

the look

A little background.

I am a stay at home mom. I have a 3.5 year old and a 3 month old. I love them and I love that I get to be home with them. I also do my best to keep up the house, do everybody's laundry, shower, work out, write, work part time for HurryDate, blah blah blah.

The story of every housewife. Right?

Anyway, both my kids were sick last week which kept me quarantined to my house and unable to see adults, the sun, or a shopping mall. Ya, it was tough. Really tough. I mean, sniff, I barely made it through....

So, today I got dressed. I did my hair and I put on my favorite mascara. I even wore my new gray boots. And I left my man with both kids and took off. My big outing? A one year old's birthday party. Once there I realized the opportunity I had before me. I was out of the house without kids! I had makeup and cute clothes on! And I was at a birthday party??? With kids??? It was Noah though, and he's worth it for sure. I mean, he's betrothed to my daughter, so it's more like a family function.

Anyway.

After I left the party I called Jimmy to check in. I had only been gone an hour.

Me: Hey babe, how are things?
Him: When are you coming home? Taylor isn't asleep yet and Chloe is crying. I thought today was going to be a relaxing day and it's not turning out that way. Grump, grump, grump....." (he went on, but I tuned out. Thanks dad for that useful skill!)
Me: Okay then, be home later. Bye.

Somehow instead of driving home though, my car took me to Ross. And then an hour and a cute purse later, I unknowingly ended up at Marshalls as well. It was weird. I mean, I wanted to go home, but just couldn't fight the force. And time was just flying by. Purses, shoes, and clothes, OH MY!

Flash forward a few hours after putting Tay to bed.

Him: I feel like I'm about to flip out. I can't handle anymore of the whining! I mean it's been all day, and then taking care of Chloe and the house. I mean, I am going to lose it. I really am.

Me:

Have I mentioned that he hates that look?


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Friday, January 9, 2009

things i love: the iBoss!!


I found something I love, and I am so excited!

It's called the iBoss, and I think every family that has kids (or husbands..he he) needs to have this in their home.

Or even, any company who wants to keep their employees accountable to their work time web surfing. About.com, Burger King, and Planned Parenthood are just a few of the top names that use the IBoss. As well as many churches and other non profit organizations.

After I watched that Oprah episode and saw just how scary it can be on the internet, especially for kids, I knew I wanted to do something that would protect my own as much as I could.

I only had to set it up on one computer and then it runs on every computer in the house or that comes into the house. Not to mention it protects our computers from bugs, spyware, virus', and other bad stuff. It's awesome, affordable, and makes you feel safe.

Benefits:

· Easily Control When and Where Your Children Surf
· Protect Your Children from Online Predators
· Monitor Your Children's Online Activity
· Manage Time Spent Online
· Prevent Viruses & Spyware
· Share Your Internet with Multiple Computers (Wired & Wireless)
· One Device Protects and Manages All Your Computers
· Works with Mac, Windows, and Linux
· Absolutely No Software to Install
· Built-in Firewall Protects Against Online Threats
· Guard Your Children from Inappropriate Content/Set Different Settings for Different Kids

I highly recommend this as I've been using it for months now and love it! Go to www.iphantom.com and use the code Family Safe at checkout to get 10% off!

Thursday, January 8, 2009

so you think you can dance?

It all started with Matt:

And then Jimmy showed him up:

But, now I think they both have some competition:

And that's just the remix. Click here for the hilariously funny original edition.

© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

lots of stuff to talk about

1.) Describe your latest obsession.

Two words. Online Shopping. I'm just, you know, doing my part for the economy. Giving back. See, it's not always about me and my needs! Sometimes I sacrifice for the sake of America.

2.) Ask a loved one to use 6 descriptive words to describe you and report your findings. How well do they know you?

Yay, I love this one, because it's now back to all about me. ;-)

So I just asked Jimmy, and with a heavy sigh and a dramatic push of the pause button on the remote, he responded with:


"Sharp - Smart, not easily fooled, and you see through people as well as the reality of situations."

"Fun - Unpredictable and funny" "Loving - You have a deep love for your family and friends." 

"Wise - Able to discern and analyze situations and choose a wise course of action." 
"Thoughtful - From leaving notes, to making an effort to cook even though you hate it, you are thoughtful inside and out." 

"Stylish - Not to be taken in a fashion way. Stylish Attitude."

In his words exactly.

Ummmm, ok. He makes me sound good, so I'll take it.

3.) Who was your first bloggy friend? How did you find each other? Do you still correspond?

Okay, so I assume by bloggy friend it means someone who I don't know or didn't know before I started my blog. I would have to say, Wep. She's been a faithful follower from near beginning, and has always checked in and left the sweetest comments.

4.) Tell us about your pet! If you have a weird infatuation with your dog or cat we want to hear about it (or if they just plain drive you crazy)...but please don't compare them to children. It's just not the same.

Oh. I can go on and on about my dog, and how we just can't handle the pooch. When I went through my few months of anxiety, I had this need for a dog. I felt that I wanted a pup to snuggle with and that would love me despite my flaws. So, I started the search for a rescued dog. We found Bradley. Actually he was Corky when we met him. That should have been my first clue. A dog with the name Corky had to be needy. (Life Goes On, remember that show?) My second clue should have been when the foster mom shoved him on my lap and told me I could take him home with me that night. Oh wait that was the third clue. Second clue should have been when he was adopted from the rescue only to be brought back a week later. But, as I remind Jimmy nearly every day, I can't be held responsible for my decisions when I'm having anxiety.

Oh this dog. You will never meet a needier dog. He's so desperate for affection that if you're shaking your foot while on the couch or chair, he will position himself under that foot so he's getting some kind of petting. It's just never enough for good ol Bradley. You can be in the process of loving on him, and he will be scratching your arm, or leg, or face, begging for more. It's sad. Really sad. But, it's more than that. I can't even begin to make him sound as needy as he is. Lets just put it this way. Even dog people have a hard time loving my dog. Are you kinda getting it now?

Here, watch this...This is Greg playing with Bradley. See what the dog will put up with just to be touched???


Have I mentioned we're not dog people? I walk him, feed him, and pet him (with my foot...on accident, but it counts), but I don't have the desire to dress him and take him with me everywhere I go. He's a dog. Not my child. Not even close. Although, I think that's what he desires to be. After a year, we decided we loved him too much to keep him. We thought he would be better off with a retired couple or an empty nester. So, we set out to find him just the right home. Months later, no takers. Apparently nobody is going through anxiety bad enough to fall for such a scam. Not to mention, Taylor kinda likes him. In his own weird way. He said Bradley's our family and he has to live in our house.

How can I let him go after that?

So, he's here for now. Right under my foot. Ugh.


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

If it's not one thing...

...It's another.

I told you, I go back and forth. Fashion, decorating, fashion, decorating...skin care, fashion, decorating....










This Young House website came from my decorating sister Heather. I'm up at midnight still looking at it, looking at my house, and then back to looking at it.

How can they be so cute, have a house so cute, be so talented and so young all at the same time? Oh wait, I didn't see that they had kids. That explains a lot!

I have decorating, motivation, and house envy right now. And I'm not sure I'll be able to sleep because I think I need to make lists as to what needs changing in my home.

I also think I need to email Thom from Dress My Nest to see if I can score a spot on his show. If anybody can get it started, it's him.


© 2009 "Le Musings of Moi"
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